since there’s is no unanimous ‘ happy men’s day’ ?!
i did celebrate it one on last friday! unknowingly though.. and will remember it for long i guess…. so long enough to blog it here :)
met 4 different shades of men, reacting so differently in the same situation! and showing care and concern extremely different ways :)
what i share with each one of them is so different and so the care and concern they showed was obviously very different..
and it will be stupid, foolish and unjustified to say that this was better and that one was fair enough and other wasn’t.. or perhaps this was expected and this wasn’t!
so leaving all the calculative work behind, let me put this very simply that it was one of those happening days when i realized that..
" sometimes we only understand ourselves better with the way ‘man’ judges and loves us :)"
i did celebrate it one on last friday! unknowingly though.. and will remember it for long i guess…. so long enough to blog it here :)
met 4 different shades of men, reacting so differently in the same situation! and showing care and concern extremely different ways :)
what i share with each one of them is so different and so the care and concern they showed was obviously very different..
and it will be stupid, foolish and unjustified to say that this was better and that one was fair enough and other wasn’t.. or perhaps this was expected and this wasn’t!
so leaving all the calculative work behind, let me put this very simply that it was one of those happening days when i realized that..
" sometimes we only understand ourselves better with the way ‘man’ judges and loves us :)"
as an independent person and woman i totally dislike it.. but then :) its so true that we do sometimes.. and we do realize it....
so then here are few who made me realize it the same other day :)
so then here are few who made me realize it the same other day :)
suketu
my friend my savior!
someone who proves me that a cat and dog can be friends:p
someone who taught me
‘selfishness is virtue.. sometimes.. for the bigger picture!’
how hard it is sometimes for naive and stupid people
and how easy you made it for me suketu......
i will always be obliged for the same :)
might be a coincidence that i am performing soon a scene in dance from bhagvatgita where arjuna was caught in ‘dharma sankata’!
where he give up in the middle of battle field and decides not to fight against his own blood. its then when lord krishna guides him ‘that what has to be done must be done.. in order to save kingdom and more’
i guess performing this scene in dance is so easy now..
but living any dharma sankata in real life !! !! but thanks suketu....you have no clue how simple you made it with those three lines, a piece of advice at the right time!
and at the top of all, it doesn’t feel any wrong. thanks for the right push and right light. you helped me take certain decisions with so much ease and giving me that new insight. my savior cant thank you enough in words...
‘for sometimes in life you are destined to listen to something extremely important from someone who will give you that pure unbiased thought and which will help you till eternity.’
my dear father
the one who taught me how to walk and i am not ashamed to accept that he still do..
the one who provides unconditional unsaid love and support
one who is busy these days teaching me that, how to arrest certain situations in life and why?
its so wonderful to know that all of sudden you have sooo much time for me again, that i have to say ‘goooo now i need to work’ and you will still hang in there for me.. with something indirectly you teach is to never give up on situations and on people!
its wonderful catching up on the time we lost, be it whichever ways:)
prospect
the doctor who had nothing but all his shallow heart for me :) probably few doctors need to learn the art of saying sorry.. cause that’s what few are known for!
but then i still respect doctors a lot.. i really do.
be their patients off the medicine and they will show you what care and concern is like..
i guess doctors are most challenged people when it comes to emotions.
and i guess i have always seen that enough in real life to understand.
but then, mr. hahnemann once said that treat the man in disease and not disease in man :)
guess what, sometimes spirit and guts lack..
where i realized the most that when you say it, please mean it! mean it from the bottom of your heart or else dont say it..
cause probably when doctors hurt it takes longer to heal.
rishi
some people know you so well sometimes, beyond any time any distance. candid enough to understand when needed most. maybe not a everyday part of your life... but its great the way sometimes we talk in silence..
forget about the call rishi, i was hardly even expecting you to understand the gravity of status other day...
guess it shows, we seemed to have sooo much good time together .. haven’t we ?:)
so with all that happening on just one single day i hardly had a time to think about women.. lols! hardly had a time to think for myself:P.... and the men here did that for me :)
kudos and thank you’s.
for sometimes.. when significance of men felt so much on the same day:p
now if you hang in till here then let me add something which happened so recently in the same context.....
someone asked : soooo, you do fashion designing….??
i : naaahh.. i do interior designing.
someone: but then your dressing sense is good….!
i :......... cause may be being a designer i understand lines, cuts, colors, patterns little better…… (i can be sooo boring at times.. ;( :P)
my friend my savior!
someone who proves me that a cat and dog can be friends:p
someone who taught me
‘selfishness is virtue.. sometimes.. for the bigger picture!’
how hard it is sometimes for naive and stupid people
and how easy you made it for me suketu......
i will always be obliged for the same :)
might be a coincidence that i am performing soon a scene in dance from bhagvatgita where arjuna was caught in ‘dharma sankata’!
where he give up in the middle of battle field and decides not to fight against his own blood. its then when lord krishna guides him ‘that what has to be done must be done.. in order to save kingdom and more’
i guess performing this scene in dance is so easy now..
but living any dharma sankata in real life !! !! but thanks suketu....you have no clue how simple you made it with those three lines, a piece of advice at the right time!
and at the top of all, it doesn’t feel any wrong. thanks for the right push and right light. you helped me take certain decisions with so much ease and giving me that new insight. my savior cant thank you enough in words...
‘for sometimes in life you are destined to listen to something extremely important from someone who will give you that pure unbiased thought and which will help you till eternity.’
my dear father
the one who taught me how to walk and i am not ashamed to accept that he still do..
the one who provides unconditional unsaid love and support
one who is busy these days teaching me that, how to arrest certain situations in life and why?
its so wonderful to know that all of sudden you have sooo much time for me again, that i have to say ‘goooo now i need to work’ and you will still hang in there for me.. with something indirectly you teach is to never give up on situations and on people!
its wonderful catching up on the time we lost, be it whichever ways:)
prospect
the doctor who had nothing but all his shallow heart for me :) probably few doctors need to learn the art of saying sorry.. cause that’s what few are known for!
but then i still respect doctors a lot.. i really do.
be their patients off the medicine and they will show you what care and concern is like..
i guess doctors are most challenged people when it comes to emotions.
and i guess i have always seen that enough in real life to understand.
but then, mr. hahnemann once said that treat the man in disease and not disease in man :)
guess what, sometimes spirit and guts lack..
where i realized the most that when you say it, please mean it! mean it from the bottom of your heart or else dont say it..
cause probably when doctors hurt it takes longer to heal.
rishi
some people know you so well sometimes, beyond any time any distance. candid enough to understand when needed most. maybe not a everyday part of your life... but its great the way sometimes we talk in silence..
forget about the call rishi, i was hardly even expecting you to understand the gravity of status other day...
guess it shows, we seemed to have sooo much good time together .. haven’t we ?:)
so with all that happening on just one single day i hardly had a time to think about women.. lols! hardly had a time to think for myself:P.... and the men here did that for me :)
kudos and thank you’s.
for sometimes.. when significance of men felt so much on the same day:p
now if you hang in till here then let me add something which happened so recently in the same context.....
someone asked : soooo, you do fashion designing….??
i : naaahh.. i do interior designing.
someone: but then your dressing sense is good….!
i :......... cause may be being a designer i understand lines, cuts, colors, patterns little better…… (i can be sooo boring at times.. ;( :P)
someone: ohh right! and you probably add good curves to it!!!!
now that’s too much to handle as compliment specially in presence of your parents and lot of other people who i wish ignored that.. lols! i politely thanked him.. thinking at the back of my mind.. men will always be men :) ;)!
now that’s too much to handle as compliment specially in presence of your parents and lot of other people who i wish ignored that.. lols! i politely thanked him.. thinking at the back of my mind.. men will always be men :) ;)!
6 comments:
nice sketch of men n different situations acknowledgin its importance...u can make a short film outta it... or u can sell m ethe rights... I can make one... :)
but hey very refreshin to read abt men in different light n shades in eyes of s woman..was impressive..
n lastly I thank you on behalf of all menkind for not usin the highly cliched 'MCB' tag or word.. I as many other men will feel so good about it...evn if its for a moment..keep penin ur thotz.. :)
btw jst in case u makin a short film on it.. can i get the role of the guy whose so much influenced by fashion designin..
Nice blog. I must say, A very challanging topic to write. You hit the nail on the head, nicely depicted 4 different flavours. Well Done. keep posting. This one was a nice read like many other you wrote ...
nicely put up!!! :)
liked the way u wrote abt suketu and ur dad
very philosophical
and men analysed almost perfect....only as a woman can:)
a woman? wowow:)
nice work , keep it up!!!
i am sure u will always find a way out of every dharam sankata in ur life:):)
this is one post which i have liked most, in recent times, out of all that you wrote priti!!!
@suketu,
i guess it works vice versa..that you people also understand yourselves better with the way women judge and love:)
and you are the right fit as the fashion fellow.you are sooo apt for the role:P lets make the short flim!
@kunal,
thanks:) yes was very challenging to pen down what i exactly feel like and still manage not to offend anyone to the core. with those varied shades it became very interesting i guess :)
@swapneel thank you :)
@anand, thank you sooo much! you inspire me a lot :)
so generously you put it here!
i really hope to get out of the dharma sankata..to at least have found the way now makes me feel so better :)
and with the effort you managed to put comment today for this one itself made me like 'your this comment'a lot out of all you ever shared:)
and when it comes to analyzing women then there no match with what you write anand! so many times i think of writing fiction but cant:(
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